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STAGE TWO : THE PATH : LAYING BRICKS
Once the destination on the map is set, we now create a path in which to travel. Keep in mind that more than one path may lead to the same destination. Think through all of the possible pathways for a given destination.
Pull out your destination and mission statement. The destination is a reminder of where the path is leading us, and the mission statement is the focus of why we are traveling this path.
Now let's talk about how. How do we set the path before us. Here are some questions to answer in order to create a good path:
- What additional schooling or training does my destination require?
- If you have a specific profession in your destination, then what kind of educational options lay before you in order to be prepared to engage in that profession. Don't forget to think outside the box, there's more than one way to become an engineer or a doctor.
- Are there requirements that I can complete now?
- Does my destination have requirements that I can take care of now? Do I need to get a driver's license? In order to study overseas in Spain someday, should I start studying spanish now? If I want to be an auto mechanic, what certifications, classes, or apprenticeships can I engage in this year to work towards that goal? If I want to go in the medical field, should I consider becoming a CNA now? How about a lifeguard? CPR certification?
- Are there additional requirements needed to gain access to the schooling or training necessary for my destination?
- What specific requirements does the university that I want to attend have? Do I need to take four years of foreign language? Does the school I like require volunteer hours? Is the training for my destination expensive? How will I cover those costs?
- What is the focus of my destination?
- This is a reminder of your mission statement. Why did I choose this destination? How does my destination relate with my mission statement? What other things can I do now that have the same focus as my destination?
- Who can help me on my path?
- It's time to look outside of yourself. Who has God placed in my path to help me? Do I know anyone in a similar destination that may be interested in mentoring me? Have I asked?
- What tools do I need?
- Don't pick up a hammer, unless your destination is carpentry, but instead think of what you could use to make your work easier. A hammer is a lever that makes building easier. What do you have access to that might make your journey easier? Work smarter not harder. If you have a mentor then you will be five years ahead of everyone else in your path. If you have a license and a car then you can take advantage of more work opportunities or more classes outside of the home, but it does cost something so keep that in mind. What tools do you have to help you? What tools do you want? What tools can you get? What tools must you have in order to reach your destination?
When you've taken the time to identify and lay the path to your destination then you will be ready to start the journey. Starting a journey with a map, tools, and people who love you is one of the most exciting things in the world. So get your map (destination), tools (path), and people (parents, Scio, friends, etc), and let's get moving!
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